Monday, August 24, 2009

On Dr. Laura Today!!!

Thank you Dr. Laura for featuring Don't Hit Send Just To Fit In on today's Reading Corner.



The book giveaway begins Monday August 24, 2009 at 1:00pmPT and ends Tuesday August 25, 2009 at 1:00pmPT. You may enter the contest at any point during that time.

Don't Hit Send Just To Fit In
Danielle Tiano (Author), with Karen Child Ogden (Author), Arly Evensen (Editor), Edward Pollick (Illustrator)
Self Published

Book Description
Today's bully has a new playground; computers, cell phones and social networking sites. What was once known as teasing face to face, playing practical jokes, and making prank phone calls has evolved in to a generation of bullies that hides behind the veil of computer screens and cell phones.

Creators of the renowned children's book series, Temptation of a Generation, will release their third book that tackles the tough issues today's pre-teens face with technology. Don't Hit Send Just to Fit In educates children and parents about cyber bullying, a topic rampant in schools across the country affecting kids as young seven years old.

Don't Hit Send Just to Fit In tells the story of a group of tweens who become victims to cyber bullies. On their way to discovering more positive ways to deal with these new found issues, the tweens become bullies themselves. Through the help of positive adults and a magical keyboard, they learn not to succumb to the lure of cyber bullying and realize that there are better ways to fit in and make friends.

"Bullying has always existed among youth, but today's bullying seems to have more devastating effects. The mode of delivery is much faster, and reaches inordinate amounts of people," states Karen Child Ogden, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, and contributor to the series. "Once kids post a message on a social networking site or cell phone it can never be erased. Kids don't understand the consequences of their behavior with regard to cyber bullying, and neither do most parents."

Don't Hit Send Just to Fit In teaches children and parents how easy it is to become a cyber bully, or to be bullied online. Studies show 42% of children have been bullied while online, while 58% have not told their parents about something mean or hurtful that happened to them while surfing the net (from enough.org, isafe.org and ctia.org). The ramifications of cyber bullying are far-reaching and include depression, anxiety, school absence, and even death. The number of kids who take their lives due to cyber bullying grows each day.

"Kids are using their cell phones and personal web pages to send threatening messages to intimidate others. Bullying with a cell phone or computer, while less personal, is no less threatening," says Danielle Tiano, author of the Temptation Series. "Having electronic devices should include taking personal responsibility for their use."

The Temptation of a Generation Series tackles tough topics relating to tweens and technology such as Internet pornography, cell phone use and abuse, and cyber bullying. The series offers parents information and tools for raising their children to become more emotionally and socially healthy.

About Don't Hit Send Just to Fit In
The book illustrates a group of tweens who become victims of cyber bullies. In an attempt to fit in, they become cyber bullies themselves, not realizing the consequences of their actions. Through the help of positive adults and a magical keyboard, the group discovers more positive ways to deal with these issues.

About the Temptation of a Generation Team
Danielle Tiano, children's author, is the founder of Beyond Your Words. Tiano has written about difficult subject matter for children such as childhood obesity and attention deficit disorder. She is married and resides in Newport Beach, CA.

Karen Child Ogden is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist with a private practice in Costa Mesa, CA. Ogden is married and the mother of three children.


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Tuesday, August 11, 2009

Parenting OC-Ask The Expert: Internet in a Child's Room?

Read this month's Ask The Experts column in Parenting OC!



WRONG ROOM FOR INTERNET

My 13-year old says that he needs his own computer (with Internet access of course) for the upcoming school year and wants to have it in his room like many of his friends do. I am uncomfortable with this. Am I being too paranoid?

No! You are right to not feel comfortable letting your child have a computer with access to the Internet in his room. It is very dangerous and may pose serious risks not only to him but also to your family. In a recent study by security technology company McAffee, 80% of parents said that they don't turn on their parental control software and 30% of parents said they leave their children alone in their bedrooms to surf the net. More shocking is the finding that 26% of all 5 to 7-year-olds have a computer in their bedroom! (www.mcaffee.com).

Two questions beg to be answered. Why would you allow a very young child to have unrestricted access to the Internet at all hours of the day and night? Other than giving parents a false sense of security, what good is parental control software if it is not enabled?

You wouldn’t leave your front door open at night, or send your 7-year-old on a trip around the world alone, so why would you leave the virtual door open into your child's room inviting strangers and inappropriate content into your home?

Purchasing parental control software is the first step in keeping your family safe from cyber predators, bullies and from developing dangerous addictions to things such as gaming, gambling or pornography; but knowing how to use the software and developing strict rules around Internet use are the real keys to a safe home.
Consider the following suggestions:

Make your family computer a laptop so that it can be turned off and hidden at night.
Install Internet filtering and parental control software and know how to use it!
Make computer time like television or gaming time, with limits and restrictions.
Make sure you are in the same room as your child while he is surfing the net, letting him know that you can look over his shoulder at any time.
The most influential step however, in protecting your children is to have frequent conversations with your child about the power of the Internet, both good and bad, and about what other kids are doing online (as kids are more likely to give information about what other kids are doing).

The most disturbing finding in the recent McAffee study is that nearly two thirds of parents said they had not raised the issue of Internet safety with their children. Maybe you don’t know much about the Internet and don’t want to seem uneducated, maybe you don’t really want to know what’s going on with your child, or maybe you are unaware of the dangers lurking in cyber space…whatever the reason, don’t delay! Educate yourself and start the conversation with your child today!

The virtual world is not for a child to explore alone! They will thank you later for protecting them. —Karen Child Ogden, LMFT

http://www.parentingoc.com/ate_0908.html

Parenting OC "Cracking Down on Bullying", by Janet Otsuki


Read this month's Parenting OC magazine for not only fantastic information for parents and families in Orange County, but for a great article on Bullying by Janet Otsuki. Let's teach our children to take a stand against bullying!

http://trendmag2.trendoffset.com/publication/?i=20393&p=11

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Saturday, August 8, 2009

Temptation Series given at the Teen Choice Awards gifting suite


Alyssa Pometta with Brandi Cyrus & Band Members

PRLog (Press Release) – Aug 08, 2009 – Baby Swags, a celebrity gifting and public relations firm headed to Hollywood with client products in hand for the Teen Choice Awards gift suite presented by Totally Texty and T2PR. The one-day young Hollywood event was held at the well-known nightclub, Level 3 on August 6, 2009.

Baby Swags is a well-known celebrity gifting company located in the suburbs of Chicago, Illinois and has a network of over 400 mom-based businesses that provides client products to award events, charity events, VIP gift bags, and has hosted their own gift suite, “Rockin’ Lollipop Lounge” as a way to bring more exposure and credibility to their clients products.

“The day was jam packed with fun and great opportunities to get my clients products seen by many well-known celebrity teen idols, publicists, celebrity stylists and media.” Baby Swags founder, Phyllis Pometta adds, “Thanks to T2PR and Totally Texty, my clients received a great new following!”

Celebrities at the event went home with products from Pink Pewter, Toffee Creations, and Temptation of a Generation, The Series.

Pink Pewter offers Original designs that are premium quality fashion hair accessories for children, teenagers and adults. Their collection of limited quantity, fashion headbands deliver the high quality you expect in a top brand at an affordable price. Their collections include unique designs featuring SWAROVSKI crystals, genuine leather and soft silk flowers.

Toffee Creations Their mission is to introduce and tantalize your taste buds with creative and “Out of the Box” flavors of their sinfully delicious, and unique combination's. Each creation is “homemade” using some of the finest and purest ingredients available.

Temptation Series The “Temptation of a Generation Series” is the first illustrated book series of its kind to tackle the tough issues of today’s pre-teens face with technology. Computers, cell phones, and personal electronic devices are wonderful tools, yet can be dangerous to children when used without parental supervision. “The Temptation Series” is designed for pre-teens and their parents as a tool to open communication and to help create rules for using such technology.

Celebrities in attendance consisted of, Brandi Cyrus, Noah Cyrus, Jason Earles, Tiffany Thornton, Chelsea Staub, Christina Murphy, Kaycee Stroh, Brittany Curran, Molly Burnett, Chelsea Hobbs, Justin Chon, Ashley Argota, Ryan Newman, Kyle Massey, Dakota, Emily Grave Reaves, David Henrie, Keana Texeira, Austin Butler, Jonathan Morgan Heit, Scott Baio, Chris Atkins, Crystal Hill, Emma Winkler, Porscha Coleman, Derrex Brady and many more.

Tuesday, August 4, 2009

Decoding the Secret Language of Teen Texting- The Fish Atlanta



I was interviewed today by Kevin & Taylor, morning show hosts of 104.7 FM The Fish Atlanta, about the secret teen text language. Visit the Temptation of a Generation website to take our Text Talk Quiz. How many texting codes do you know??

www.thefishatlanta.com
www.temptationseries.com